i found this thing online where a girl wrote about the process of becoming a girl to a woman.. is it right? or wrong? just wondering because i’m not sure what to say, because i don’t have alot of life experince…
its kind of long
Going from girl to woman is not easy, being a woman is the hardest thing in the world. You have to know your body, how to look good, and the rest of your life what happens bad to you is on you. If you let a man disrespect you isn’t it your fought for not knowing better? I think as girls we go through lesson’s that try to show us to be prepared for what the real world is like. It’s sad but this world is not a good place, and even if you’re a Christian sometimes just to survive your going to sin. And even if we fall in love with the best man, forever is a long time, so if he cheats, we have to handle it in the responsible way, a lot of women don’t leave they stick it out. At any point of life someone will always try to take your place, or ruin your happiness so we have to learn how to play the game the right way. Any girl can go get mad beat the shit out of someone, but as you get older that’s not expectable. If we have kids, were going to have to shelter them from what marriage really is, and let them learn on there on their own. And when they get hurt, we have to be there.. And make sure they learn Or they can grow up seeing things, they shouldn’t. no on wants to lie, honestly its scaring stepping out in the real world. You can’t let your emotions get the best of you, no one should fall helpless in love with any man, maybe back in the day, but the world is changing. I don’t think there is nothing wrong with a girl going out and having sex before marriage, but like we have all read a women kisses and doesn’t believe. Listen and observer more then you talk, and always look for red flags, personality is everything in man. I honestly don’t think there is a cold hearted woman out there. You either marry, and start a family, or go get a stable foundation for yourself. Either way we have to work 10 times harder, eat 10 times less, and even when the walls fall down on us, we still have to smile. Remember the best revenge is true success, and the best medicine for a bad break up is working out. If you find one good girlfriend in life you can trust, don’t ever walk away. .. Because for some reason girls turn on one another.. As you get older, you might just find your best friend in bed with your man, and if you leave.. You might just have to deal with her being a step mom to your kids, so chose wisely. Never trust anyone, just yourself.. And if you have kids, never love anyone more then you love them. The only person who can be a dad to them, is the dad. I wouldn’t take advice from a man who isn’t a parent to begin with. I think the worst failure in the world is being selfish towards the people you put in the world. If they have a dream, bust your ass to give them the steps to get there. Nothing is going to be easy, all women have insurcities but as girls we should of learned to either work on it, get over it, or not show it. Its not going to be easy, and I’m sure its going to be painful.. You have to stay true to yourself, your kids, and your man, even if he cheats.. Its up to us to keep it together. I don’t think its too good to have an opinion when its comes to men, we all know what we want, and if he isn’t it the best way to leave is in silence. Were protectors, lovers, and most of all we still are just that little girl who believed in love stories and songs when we where younger, but like I said the process of growing is painful so always keep you high heels close, your true friends closer, don’t play to hard with your enemies if anything let them believe what they want, and just smile and agree with them.. And when you prove them wrong let them find it out on their own, never leave your house with out lip stick, and always wear a smile, because no matter what its up to us to get it done the right way, being young is ignorant, not seeing the world is a shame, not spending time alone sin hurting you in the end, and using drugs to cover up pain never allows any girl to get it, my advice you can’t change the bad boys, so learn to look somewhere else. Learn what you can handle and can’t, and if someone walks all over you take a day, to figure out what’s the best way to go about it. If a guy breaks up with you, turn your phone off for a week. No matter what after you grow up its always the girls fought, most men make it that way, so be sure you think through your actions. There is a difference between a bitch and a lady, so learn it.
Effyouseekayy EFebruary 25th, 2010 at 5:29 pm
sorry, i fell asleep 3 hours into reading your post.. References :
Allison MFebruary 25th, 2010 at 5:31 pm
that absolutely correct, and a lot of females havent gotten the message yet… References :
i found this thing online where a girl wrote about the process of becoming a girl to a woman.. is it right?
or wrong? just wondering because i’m not sure what to say, because i don’t have alot of life experince…
its kind of long
Going from girl to woman is not easy, being a woman is the hardest thing in the world. You have to know your body, how to look good, and the rest of your life what happens bad to you is on you. If you let a man disrespect you isn’t it your fought for not knowing better? I think as girls we go through lesson’s that try to show us to be prepared for what the real world is like. It’s sad but this world is not a good place, and even if you’re a Christian sometimes just to survive your going to sin. And even if we fall in love with the best man, forever is a long time, so if he cheats, we have to handle it in the responsible way, a lot of women don’t leave they stick it out. At any point of life someone will always try to take your place, or ruin your happiness so we have to learn how to play the game the right way. Any girl can go get mad beat the shit out of someone, but as you get older that’s not expectable. If we have kids, were going to have to shelter them from what marriage really is, and let them learn on there on their own. And when they get hurt, we have to be there.. And make sure they learn Or they can grow up seeing things, they shouldn’t. no on wants to lie, honestly its scaring stepping out in the real world. You can’t let your emotions get the best of you, no one should fall helpless in love with any man, maybe back in the day, but the world is changing. I don’t think there is nothing wrong with a girl going out and having sex before marriage, but like we have all read a women kisses and doesn’t believe. Listen and observer more then you talk, and always look for red flags, personality is everything in man. I honestly don’t think there is a cold hearted woman out there. You either marry, and start a family, or go get a stable foundation for yourself. Either way we have to work 10 times harder, eat 10 times less, and even when the walls fall down on us, we still have to smile. Remember the best revenge is true success, and the best medicine for a bad break up is working out. If you find one good girlfriend in life you can trust, don’t ever walk away. .. Because for some reason girls turn on one another.. As you get older, you might just find your best friend in bed with your man, and if you leave.. You might just have to deal with her being a step mom to your kids, so chose wisely. Never trust anyone, just yourself.. And if you have kids, never love anyone more then you love them. The only person who can be a dad to them, is the dad. I wouldn’t take advice from a man who isn’t a parent to begin with. I think the worst failure in the world is being selfish towards the people you put in the world. If they have a dream, bust your ass to give them the steps to get there. Nothing is going to be easy, all women have insurcities but as girls we should of learned to either work on it, get over it, or not show it. Its not going to be easy, and I’m sure its going to be painful.. You have to stay true to yourself, your kids, and your man, even if he cheats.. Its up to us to keep it together. I don’t think its too good to have an opinion when its comes to men, we all know what we want, and if he isn’t it the best way to leave is in silence. Were protectors, lovers, and most of all we still are just that little girl who believed in love stories and songs when we where younger, but like I said the process of growing is painful so always keep you high heels close, your true friends closer, don’t play to hard with your enemies if anything let them believe what they want, and just smile and agree with them.. And when you prove them wrong let them find it out on their own, never leave your house with out lip stick, and always wear a smile, because no matter what its up to us to get it done the right way, being young is ignorant, not seeing the world is a shame, not spending time alone sin hurting you in the end, and using drugs to cover up pain never allows any girl to get it, my advice you can’t change the bad boys, so learn to look somewhere else. Learn what you can handle and can’t, and if someone walks all over you take a day, to figure out what’s the best way to go about it. If a guy breaks up with you, turn your phone off for a week. No matter what after you grow up its always the girls fought, most men make it that way, so be sure you think through your actions. There is a difference between a bitch and a lady, so learn it.
sorry, i fell asleep 3 hours into reading your post..
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that absolutely correct, and a lot of females havent gotten the message yet…
References :